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My heart in a knot
2014-04-17 19:32:21 (UTC)

Situation update

So I wanted to come and write a little update since I found this out today. My sister is still receiving letters from her criminal boyfriend who is in the prison system at the moment. He gets released next year.


He recently sent a letter to my sister that I read and in it he complained multiple times about her not responding back to him, apparently she has not responded back to him in a month or so. He didn't make any angry threats in the letter but it was very creepy and psychotic the way he continued to mention her not writing, he is clearly upset and dependent on her, it's obvious he is starting to feel anxious about losing all the benefits he had with her. He is not likely to find someone as gullible as my sister who will put up with his past history and send him hundreds of dollars and purchase many things for him, of clearly he feels a need to hang onto her, especially since he will be getting out soon and I doubt he will have many places to go.


In the letter he was desperately trying to hold onto her, he mentioned a few times that they were "friends", I really don't think my sister has told him about Hosan and I don't think she will. I personally hate this situation she has gotten herself into, you cannot simply give a psychopathic person so much time, attention and money and then take it all away, especially a guy with a criminal history like his.


The most disturbing part of the letter is when he mentioned he'd stop by in a year to "pick up his stuff". He had sent a medium size box full of letters, pictures and other random stuff to our house and my sister is apparently holding onto it for him, but she doesn't see that it's a trap, she's too blind, and I'm trying really hard to not be overly critical of her right now, I remember when I first started to write about this situation I was called "nosy", but a young woman was recently murdered in my state by her boyfriend, not to mention all the other countless women who were victims to domestic violence or crime from recently released criminals. I refuse to minimalism the issue because I believe it's huge, and I feel my sister has not only endangered her own life but our entire family as well.


I may sound over dramatic and paranoid, but time will tell. I have spend too much time growing my knowledge and understanding of crime and the brutality of humans to not see this dangerous situation unfolding.


I also noticed my sister has other things for him including a very expensive pair of shoes. I'm glad she is in a relationship with Hosan now and I feel he is much better for her, since she has been talking to him she has been a lot more organized and clean, she even seems happier. I do hope they end up getting more serious and ultimately married, however I hope that she starts to get more motivated to build a career instead of playing video games all day.

Well, I still have my fears about this situation but I can't allow it to get the best of me right now. Oh yea, one last thing to mention about that, in the letter he also was talking about his brother continuously asking my sister about something. I'm wondering if he was the mystery man who showed up at our house the other day, if so, that really annoys me. My sister seems to do nothing but attract drama and I already know his brother also has a lengthy criminal record as well. I'll never forget the day I crossed paths with his sister in the library on campus, I just looked at her and saw into the future.

Well, I think that's all I have to update for tonight. I'll be heading into the work weekend starting tomorrow. I have more hours at work this weekend but they cut them down again next week. I'm still looking for another job or opportunity hopefully something in research, but most likely I won't qualify until I get my graduates degree.

until next time...




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