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My Life Thus Far
2008-07-15 08:05:18 (UTC)

Stupid Peoples' Ability

Never underestimate stupid peoples' ability to say stupid
things. This is the lesson I've learned today. It's a
valuable lesson to learn and will prove itself true time
and time again.

I had a great evening. After I wrote last, the whole
family went out for a walk. My strength is returning a
little each day and other then my back aching some
(probably from the huge weight of my 36G's), I felt great.
It was fabulous getting outside and moving.

The rest of the night was great. The girls eventually went
off to bed, Snookums and I took a shower (while Keenan
dozed in his swing) and then we just relaxed in the living
room. This is when the drama started...

I have an e-mail notifier on my computer that makes an
annoying little jingle each time I get a new e-mail. Well,
it made it's little noise, so I got up to check it. It was
a myspace message from Ron's girlfriend Nicole. If you're
new to my diary and don't know who Ron is, see September's
entries from last year. Keep in mind Ron and Nicole had
not met in September. Not until November in fact, so I'm
not even sure what the problem is.

The message from Nicole was basically bitching me out for
trying to steal Ron from her. Even though I just had a
baby, my husband has been home on leave and I have
stitches in my vagina and couldn't have sex if I wanted
to. I explained all this to her, but she still sent
several more messages telling me how I'm a fat slut that
can't make up her mind, I'm a whore. I need to leave Ron
alone. It went on and on.

The thing that truly surprised me was how calm I stayed.
Nothing she said got to me in the least bit. I wasn't
upset with her. I wasn't at all mad. I tried to reason
with her, because she was obviously upset that Ron might
be messing around, but it wasn't getting through to her
that if he is, it isn't with me. I politely wished her and
Ron well and asked her not to continue messaging me with
her rude remarks and so far she's complied. I'm as cool as
a cucumber and I feel great :) I honestly feel like my
life is beautiful right now and all that nasty business
from the past is just that... the past. You don't hang
dirty laundry back up in the closet. I just made that up.
I have no idea if it's a real saying or not :) I really do
wish them well, though. Whatever made her go off on me is
still a mystery. I hope she develops some self-confidence
soon.

It's a little after 1am and Keenan is still up. Not
fussing, just kind of looking around and making noise. So,
I'm staying up until he's ready to go to bed. Snookums got
about 3 hours of sleep last night and he's not good
without at least 5 or 6. So, we're just hanging out out
here until Keenan is ready to go down for the night. I
don't mind, it gives me time to share my innermost
thoughts :) Ciao.




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